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"If dating and relationships were a city, the Friend Zone would be the neighborhood everyone would want to avoid. It's the vast wasteland where two people get. No matter how deep you think you are in the friend zone, with these 6 steps you'll get her to like more than "just a friend". The friend zone is where guys who don't know how to attract women end up and it takes some serious work to get out of it. In the friend zone.
Yes, everyones different. Yes, we are all unique, special little snowflakes. But there are certain patterns that come up in every Friend Zone relationship, and were going to tell you what they are.
You two are inseparable. You go shopping together, you instant message constantly, you go to dinner at the 28 How to Get Out of the Friend Zone same pizza place every Thursday and play thumb war to decide who gets to choose the toppings, you go on road trips and sing old Disney songs, you go to Ikea and sit in the showroom and pretend you live together and fight over the fake remote. You are the cutest damn couple this world has ever seen. Youre so cute, it makes old people smile when they look at you.
Youre just cute, cute, cute, cute, cute! Only youre not a real couple. Youre a couple whose relationship is as fake as that Ikea remote. After a whole day spent with your friend, you hate yourself because you know youre lying.
Here you are pretending to be someones bestie when what you really want to do is make them your lovah. You spend the whole time youre with your friend thinking about how to make them more than your friend, and when youre not with them all you do is think about the next time youre going to be with them and what youre going to do differently.
But then there you go again, doing the same thing day after day and wishing for a different ending. You feel kind of addicted to your friend, like the way youre addicted to curly fries, or to checking Facebook. You just cant get enough of the way you feel when youre with them, giddy, silly, like you're walking on air. You tell yourself you can stop anytime you want to. But when your friend calls out of the blue to see if you can go yard saling with them, the thought of saying no makes a little part of your heart die.
You want them to love you so badly that its hard to breathe. Your life is a roller coaster of highs and lows. Sometimes you look into your friends eyes and couldnt be happier. Everything is perfect and youre exactly where you want to be.
Other times it physically hurts to be with them because youre reminded of how perfect your life would be if only they were yours. The Truth About the Friend Zone 29 Your buddies all think you guys are in love and tease you about how youre already married to your friend, and thats why you never have a date. You tell yourself that if you could just get up the guts to confess your feelings to your friend, you two would live happily ever after in a castle, or at least a nice two-story Craftsman.
Sometimes you think that if you just changed one little part of yourself, like if you lost ten pounds, or found the right haircut, or got that teeth whitening laser stuff, or became a rock star, that they would suddenly run to you in slow motion, like in all those romantic comedies, and throw their arms around you and say, What have we been waiting for?
At the same time, you have a recurring nightmare that they get married to the wrong person as in anyone whos not you.
If that really happened, youd have to move to Iceland and become a trapeze artist or a shrimp boat captain. You are always walking that tightrope between best- and worst-case scenarios. Some of you may be asking, Why is it a problem? Im happy here whistling in the dark. I love my fake relationship where I feel superbad about myself and dont get laid! Its fun to be tortured on a regular basis.
Snuggling with my body pillow is enough for me. Is it really?
Look at your Friend Zone situation for what it really is: Its a relationship built on a deck of cards. At any moment your whole world could be turned upside down because your friend fell 30 How to Get Out of the Friend Zone for someone else. You think, If they would just stay exactly where they are, paralyzed in time for the rest of eternity, I would be happy, but if they move slightly to the right or left, it would all go to hell.
This is a conditional relationship where you have no say over what happens to you. You have no control over your own fate. Also, youre not getting laid by the person you want to get laid by. What are you? A nun?
Why on earth would you do this to yourself? A self-imposed abstinence? Sure, sign me up! Do you not like sex? Are you sure?
It feels pretty good. And no matter what anyone says, it does wonders for your self-esteem to be with someone, in an intimate way, who you are physically attracted to, and you deserve that. Youre doing all the hard work for no reward. Youre doing the homework and someone else is getting the A. Maybe youre pumping up their ego so they can have the courage to date someone else. Maybe youre giving them free therapy or helping them break out of their shell.
Whatever it is, youre doing it for your friend and not for yourself.
You are essentially picking up someone elses dog poop off someone elses lawn. You should only do that for your own dog.
Why are you putting in all this emotional time and effort and getting nothing in return? You are also lying. Not admitting your true feelings for your friend is lying.
If your friend knew about your true feelings for them, it would change the dynamic of your relationship. You know this, but youre keeping it to yourself because youre afraid.
If you were withholding any other information this important, you wouldnt be able to sleep at night, but since its just the fact that youre in love, you feel you can let it slide.
The world is full of people who will hinder your future relationships; you dont need to be one of them. The fantasy of being with your friend is preventing you from entering a real relationship. Even though you say youre open to dating other people and finding someone else, be honest. Youre not really looking, because youve got your heart set on this friend of yours. Your other friends feel sorry for you and are tired of hearing the same thing over and over again.
They cringe when you talk about your friend. Youre the friend who needs an intervention. They shake their heads and mouth the words Friend Zone to each other every time you mention your friends name.
They feel powerless to help you because you ignore everything they suggest. They know youre in a terrible situation, but they dont know what to do about it, so they just sit on the sidelines and pray that youll meet someone else and move on with your life.
Table of Contents. So, to avoid being friend-zoned, you simply have to exploit this flaw so that she sees you as a potential lover instead.
How do you exploit this flaw in her mind then? Well, pretty simple… by playing mind games on her! And you do this in three simple steps. The first step is NOT to freak out. Tell her that you agree with her. Yeah, being friends is probably better. According to Derek Rake, the only way to get a woman to let her guard down is to make her confused.
Remember — confusion and misdirection is the key to winning the game of seduction. First of all, hang out with her less frequently. Next comes the killer move — ask her about her opinions about OTHER women preferably someone that both of you know, or even better, someone she mildly despise or is jealous of. What you think of that, bro? If you do this right, she will change her demeanor with you, or even start getting a little pissed off with you.
This is a good sign. From experience: Again, this is a good sign. You should only be worried if she is indifferent to you.
As a sidenote: Needless to say, Fractionation is a controversial technique, and indeed it has been mis used to hurt women emotionally and psychologically. This is important! To attend the Fractionation Masterclass which is conducted online by Derek Rake, click here. Pickup Artists, eat your heart out". The Seduction Initiatives S. I group is an invite-only networking group for men with the aim of improving the love and relationship skills of its members and contributing to the society as a whole.
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