Page TABLE OF CONTENTS Introduction1) What Is Your Purpose? 2) Positive Emotions = Positive Relationships 3). Coach Stephen Nash reveals the 1 big mistake guys make when improving with women & dating in this excerpt from his How to Get a Girlfriend Book pdf. your future girlfriend or potential bed buddy while your friends wonder how the guy to make the first move, but in reality a woman will have already given over.
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You're about to discover how to get a girlfriend by becoming her obvious choice, so the girl you like chooses you over all the other guys. How To Be A 3% Man - Free ebook download as PDF File .pdf), Text File .txt) or How to get your wife or girlfriend back. Turn your girl "friend" into your girlfriend. would make noise about tough issues but also focus on girlfriend in your life? .. you may get what you deserve and you might never have a real girlfriend.
What we do right now, bloodied and battered, is what defines us.
We can choose to be weak, lay on the cold ground and await the artillery shelling of emotion, or we can choose to become the stuff of legends.
Feel the pain like a sprinter feels the burn of that last lap. Feel it! Accept its presence. Yes, it exists. Take responsibility for your own thoughts and feelings, pull up your britches, and never forget this is for the best. I promise. Your mission is to prosper without him or her; to be independent.
Then another step. It is always the same step, but you have to take it. This is the hardest part for me.
Even if she comes back, do I really want a girl who rejected me? If they dumped you for shit you need to clean out of your life, then you need to fix it not for them, but for yourself. Be thankful for the good times you shared, and use it as motivation to find the next one! Your worth has nothing to do with their approval of you. We miss being with someone who is attractive , smart, funny, and likes us.
But guess what? The irony is, if we ever end up with them again, it can only be because we prospered without them. Would things be different? We are who we choose to be today, and that is the only thing we can control. Guilt over the past and worry over the future are both useless emotions that retard our ability to live today in relaxed confidence. Act Attractive They may still want to be your friend. They may hate your guts.
They may send mixed signals. They may call and text all the time.
They may never contact you again. They may act aloof, and still call you to wish you a happy birthday this happened to me at the time of writing.
They may be confused and hurt and do all the above. None of it should affect you. Public Enemy 1 is to overreact. Most people will behave out of anger or anxiety; both are forms of unearned worship.
There are too many variables to know the motivations behind that particular action at that particular time. Both are reactive. A good rule of thumb here is to scale back your interaction according to the severity of your pain — the more you hurt, the less you should talk. Do Not Chase Not only does this drive them away, but it reveals a neediness and desperation.
To be attractive to women you need to know what your purpose is and move passionately toward its fulfillment. Aimless, uninspired men are less attractive AND they tend to be unhappy and single.
However, if you are like many men, secretly your purpose is to meet a special woman to form a relationship. This will not work for you. Anything else will. By making any woman into your purpose, you make yourself insecure before this object of desire. In doing this, you depolarize yourself and any attraction that might exist between you and her.
Men are looked upon by women to provide security. Once your woman, or the woman you seek senses SHE is the aim of your life, she knows you have lost your way. By depending upon HER to provide you with security, you thwart the natural polarity that should exist between man and woman.
This is the genesis of the modern phenomenon: The Needy Male. So, stop this.