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In doing so you will stroke their deep-rooted narcissism and lower their defenses. Create Temptation Lure the target deep into your seduction by creating the proper temptation: a glimpse of the pleasures to come. As the serpent tempted Eve with the promise of forbidden knowledge, you must awaken a desire in your targets that they cannot control. Find that weakness of theirs, that fantasy that has yet to be realized, and hint that you can lead them toward it.
The key is to keep it vague. Stimulate a curiosity stronger than the doubts and anxieties that go with it, and they will follow you. The moment people feel they know what to expect from you, your spell on them is broken. More: You have ceded them power. The only way to lead the seduced along and keep the upper hand is to create suspense, a calculated surprise. Doing something they do not expect from you will give them a delightful sense of spontaneity — they will not be able to foresee what comes next.
You are always one step ahead and in control. Give the victim a thrill with a sudden change of direction. Use the Demonic Power of Words to Sow Confusion It is hard to make people listen; they are consumed with their own thoughts and desires, and have little time for yours. The trick to making them listen is to say what they want to hear, to fill their ears with whatever is pleasant to them.
This is the essence of seductive language. Pay Attention to Detail Lofty words of love and grand gestures can be suspicious: Why are you trying so hard to please? The details of a seduction — the subtle gestures, the offhand things you do — are often more charming and revealing. You must learn to distract your victims with a myriad of pleasant little rituals — thoughtful gifts tailored just for them, clothes and adornments designed to please them, gestures that show the time and attention you are paying them.
Mesmerized by what they see, they will not notice what you are really up to. Poeticize Your Presence Important things happen when your targets are alone: The slightest feeling of relief that you are not there, and it is all over. Familiarity and overexposure will cause this reaction. Remain elusive, then. Intrigue your targets by alternating an exciting presence with a cool distance, exuberant moments followed by calculated absences.
Associate yourself with poetic images and objects, so that when they think of you, they begin to see you through an idealized halo. The more you figure in their minds, the more they will envelop you in seductive fantasies. Disarm Through Strategic Weakness and Vulnerability Too much manuevering on your part may raise suspicion.
The best way to cover your tracks is to make the other person feel superior and stronger. If you seem to be weak, vulnerable, enthralled by the other person, and unable to control yourself, you will make your actions look more natural, less calculated. Physical weakness — tears, bashfulness, paleness — will help create the effect.
Confuse Desire and Reality — The Perfect Illusion To compensate for the difficulties in their lives, people spend a lot of their time daydreaming, imagining a future full of adventure, success, and romance. If you can create the illusion that through you they can live out their dreams, you will have them at your mercy. Aim at secret wishes that have been thwarted or repressed, stirring up uncontrollable emotions, clouding their powers of reason.
Lead the seduced to a point of confusion in which they can no longer tell the difference between illusion and reality. Isolate the Victim An isolated person is weak. By slowly isolating your victims, you make them more vulnerable to your influence. Take them away from their normal milieu, friends, family, home.
Give them the sense of being marginalized, in limbo — they are leaving one world behind and entering another. Once isolated like this, they have no outside support, and in their confusion they are easily led astray. Lure the seduced into your lair, where nothing is familiar.
Prove Yourself Most people want to be seduced. If they resist your efforts, it is probably because you have not gone far enough to allay their doubts — about your motives, the depth of your feelings, and so on. One well-timed action that shows how far you are willing to go to win them over will dispel their doubts.
Effect a Regression People who have experienced a certain kind of pleasure in the past will try to repeat or relive it.
The deepest-rooted and most pleasurable memories are usually those from earliest childhood, and are often unconsciously associated with a parental figure. Bring your targets back to that point by placing yourself in the oedipal triangle and positioning them as the needy child. Unaware of the cause of their emotional response, they will fall in love with you. Stir Up the Transgressive and Taboo There are alway social limits on what one can do. Some of these, the most elemental taboos, go back centuries; others are more superficial, simply defining polite and acceptable behavior.
Making your targets feel that you are leading them past either kind of limit is immensely seductive. People yearn to explore their dark side. Once the desire to transgress draws your targets to you, it will be hard for them to stop. Take them farther than they imagined — the shared feeling of guilt and complicity will create a powerful bond.
Use Spiritual Lures Everyone has doubts and insecurities — about their body, their self-worth, their sexuality. If your seduction appeals exclusively to the physical, you will stir up these doubts and make your targets self-conscious. Instead, lure them out of their insecurities by making them focus on something sublime and spiritual: a religious experience, a lofty work of art, the occult. Lost in a spiritual mist, the target will feel light and uninhibited.
Deepen the effect of your seduction by making its sexual culmination seem like the spiritual union of two souls. Mix Pleasure with Pain The greatest mistake in seduction is being too nice.
At first, perhaps, your kindness is charming, but it soon grows monotonous; you are trying too hard to please, and seem insecure. Instead of overwhelming your targets with niceness, try inflicting some pain. Make them feel guilty and insecure. Instigate a breakup — now a rapprochement, a return to your earlier kindness, will turn them weak at the knees.
The lower the lows you create, the greater the highs. To heighten the erotic charge, create the excitement of fear. Give Them Space to Fall — The Pursuer Is Pursued If your targets become too used to you as the aggressor, they will give less of their own energy, and the tension will slacken. You need to wake them up, turn the tables. Once they are under your spell, take a step back and they will start to come after you.
Hint that you are growing bored. Seem interested in someone else. Soon they will want to possess you physically, and restraint will go out the window. Create the illusion that the seducer is being seduced. Use Physical Lures Targets with active minds are dangerous: If they see through your manipulations, they may suddenly develop doubts.
Put their minds gently to rest, and waken their dormant senses, by combining a nondefensive attitude with a charged sexual presence. While your cool, nonchalant air is lowering their inhibitions, your glances, voice, and bearing — oozing sex and desire — are getting under their skin and raising their temperature. Never force the physical; instead inflect your targets with heat, lure them into lust.
Morality, judgment, and concern for the future will all melt away. Master the Art of the Bold Move A moment has arrived: Your victim clearly desires you, but is not ready to admit it openly, let alone act on it. This is the time to throw aside chivalry, kindness and coquetry and to overwhelm with a bold move. One person must go on the offensive, and it is you. Beware the Aftereffects Danger follows in the aftermath of a successful seduction. Dandies like to play with their image, creating a striking and androgynous allure.
Most of us feel trapped within the limited roles that the world expects us to play. We are instantly attracted to those who are more fluid, more ambiguous, than we are— those who create their own persona. Dandies excite us because they cannot be categorized, and hint at a freedom we want for ourselves.
Dandies seduce socially as well as sexually; groups form around them, their style is wildly imitated, an entire court or crowd will fall in love with them. In adapting the Dandy character for your own purposes, remember that the Dandy is by nature a rare and beautiful flower.
Be different in ways that are both striking and aesthetic, never vulgar; poke fun at current trends and styles, go in a novel direction, and be supremely uninterested in what anyone else is doing.
Most people are insecure; they will wonder what you are up to, and slowly they will come to admire and imitate you, because you express yourself with total confidence. Naturals are spontaneous and open. Coquettes are self-sufficient, with a fascinating cool at their core.
Coquettes seem totally self-sufficient: they do not need you, they seem to say, and their narcissism proves devilishly attractive. People are inherently perverse. An easy conquest has a lower value than a difficult one; we are only really excited by what is denied us, by what we cannot possess in full.
Your greatest power in seduction is your ability to turn away, to make others come after you, delaying their satisfaction.
To understand the peculiar power of the Coquette, you must first understand a critical property of love and desire: the more obviously you pursue a person, the more likely you are to chase them away.
Self-esteem is critical in seduction. Your attitude toward yourself is read by the other person in subtle and unconscious ways. Low self-esteem repels, confidence and self-sufficiency attract. The less you seem to need other people, the more likely others will be drawn to you. Charmers want and know how to please— they are social creatures. Charmers do not argue or fight, complain, or pester— what could be more seductive? Second, they seem to be interested in us, and their interest is so delightfully focused that we relax and open up to them.
Finally Charmers are pleasant to be around. Charismatics have an unusual confidence in themselves. Learn to create the charismatic illusion by radiating intensity while remaining detached. Creating the air of charisma: Purpose. If people believe you have a plan, that you know where you are going, they will follow you instinctively The direction does not matter: pick a cause, an ideal, a vision and show that you will not sway from your goal.
Most of us must compromise constantly to survive; saints do not. They must live out their ideals without caring about the consequences.
The saintly effect bestows charisma. A Charismatic relies on the power of words. A Charismatic is larger than life, has extra presence. Most people are repressed, and have little access to their unconscious— a problem that creates opportunities for the Charismatic, who can become a kind of screen on which others project their secret fantasies and longings. You need to believe in something, and to believe in it strongly enough for it to animate all your gestures and make your eyes light up.
Charismatics display a need for love and affection. Charismatics are unconventional. If any physical attribute is crucial in seduction, it is the eyes. They reveal excitement, tension, detachment, without a word being spoken. People do not want to hear that your power comes from years of effort or discipline. They prefer to think that it comes from your personality, your character, something you were born with. Stars are ethereal and envelop themselves in mystery. People are hopelessly susceptible to myth, so make yourself the hero of a great drama.
And keep your distance— let people identify with you without being able to touch you. They can only watch and dream. Second, cultivate a blank, mysterious face, the center that radiates Starness. The Anti-Seducer: those who repel Anti-Seducers come in many shapes and kinds, but almost all of them share a single attribute, the source of their repellence: insecurity. It is critical to recognize anti-seductive qualities not only in others but also in ourselves.
The Brute: Who has no patience, who wants to skip the seduction, who offends with egotism. The Suffocator: Those who cling incessantly to you, love you before you know who they are, or who make themselves a doormat to you in their obsession. The Moralizer: Who wants you to bend to their standard. The Tightwad: Cheapness displays more insecurity beyond money. The Bumbler: The awkward speaker, who makes others feel awkward too.
The Reactor: Who is terrified to have their ego damaged. The Vulgarian: Who ignores the rules of the game, presents a garrish image, does not play the game and yet expects to win. It is rather because wordless communication through clothes, gestures, actions is the most pleasurable, exciting, and seductive form of language.
The 18 Types of Seducer Victims Never try to seduce your own type. People are constantly giving out signals of what they lack, you have to tune in to these signals and interpret their type based on them. The Reformed Rake or Siren: They desperately long to escape whatever corralled them in, what is preventing them from being their normal freely sexual self.
The Disappointed Dreamer: They long for adventure, but are stuck in a boring lifestyle. The Pampered Royal: The long to be swept off their feet by a prince charming and let them live out their fantasy of being pampered and treated like royalty. The New Prude: excessively concerned with their outward appearance, underneath they want to release, but they fear judgement.
The Exotic Fetishist: They want novelty, new experiences, things on the edge, you must position yourself as something exotic. The Professor: They analyze and think deeply about everything, but long to be overwhelmed by a more free spirit who can help them release their mental barrier. The Beauty: Used to being appreciated, you must focus on the less complimented features like her intellect or wit.
The Aging Baby: Still immature and wanting a supportive parent, you must enable their childish desires while still occasionally reeling them in.
Let her be your maternal protector. The Idol Worshipper: You must become their object of worship that provides the meaning in life that they seek. The Sensualist: Driven by their senses, you must overwhelm their site, smell, and touch, to fully draw them in. The Lonely Leader: Act as their equal or superior, the kind of relationship they rarely have. The Floating Gender: Float with them. Seduction Phase 1: Separation, Stiring Interest and Desire Choosing the right victim The right victims are those for whom you can fill a void, who see in you something exotic.
To leave people who are inaccessible to you alone is a wise path; you cannot seduce everyone. Never rush into the waiting arms of the first person who seems to like you.
That is not seduction but insecurity. People who are outwardly distant or shy are often better targets than extroverts.
They are dying to be drawn out, and still waters run deep. On the other hand, you should generally avoid people who are preoccupied with business or work— seduction demands attention, and busy people have too little space in their minds for you to occupy. Creating a False Sense of Security, Approach Indirectly Once you have chosen the right victim, you must get his or her attention and stir desire.
To move from friendship to love can win success without calling attention to itself as a maneuver. First, your friendly conversations with your targets will bring you valuable information about their characters, their tastes, their weaknesses, the childhood yearnings that govern their adult behavior. Second, by spending time with your targets you can make them comfortable with you.
Then, surprise their expectations with an errant touch or suggestion, make them now interested. There is nothing more effective in seduction than making the seduced think that they are the ones doing the seducing. The first move to master is simple: once you have chosen the right person, you must make the target come to you. Too much attention early on will actually just suggest insecurity, and raise doubts as to your motives. Worst of all, it gives your targets no room for imagination.
Take a step back; let the thoughts you are provoking come to them as if they were their own. In all arenas of life, you should never give the impression that you are angling for something— that will raise a resistance that you will never lower. Learn to approach people from the side. Send Mixed Signals What is obvious and striking may attract their attention at first, but that attention is often short-lived; in the long run, ambiguity is much more potent.
Most of us are much too obvious —instead, be hard to figure out. To deepen their interest, you must hint at a complexity that cannot be grasped in a week or two.